A Beginner’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting  

People around the planet are interested in sex and sexuality, with pornography being one of the top ways that people are introduced to a wide variety of sexual options. That said, porn is not always the most realistic depiction of sexual fun. Either way, vaginal fisting is not just something that happens in porn; many people get off hard from the techniques involved. Safety is a priority, and unlike porn videos, the process can take some time. People need to prepare their pussy, exercising the muscles, and working to make it more flexible over time. For many people, this process can take between six months to a year or more. This article explores what vaginal fisting is, what types of people do it, what the orgasms are like, and tons of other awesome information. Utilize the tips, techniques, and safety guidelines on this website to enhance your experience and make progress towards your fisting goals.

What Is Vaginal Fisting? 

Vaginal fisting is the process of inserting an entire hand into a person's pussy. Other types of fisting are also out there, and the term is utilized whether there is one fist being inserted, two fists being inserted, or a foot is inserted. Despite the name, vaginal fisting very rarely involves a closed fist being put inside the person's body.

Rather, there are more convenient hand positions for insertion. In this guide to fisting, you will learn more about the hand positions, safety techniques, tools you can use for training, and more. Vaginal fisting has a range of other terms used to describe it, including handballing, hand sex, fist fucking, and others. As a general concept, vaginal fisting is a form of extreme fingering. For some people, it feels fantastic, leading to body quaking orgasms, intense emotions, and massive pleasurable feelings. The fingers, when fisting is happening, are straight and grouped together as close as possible when going inside the pussy.

Yes, People Really Do Fisting! 

Some people feel that vaginal fisting is just done in porn movies and nowhere else. It is done by a number of different types of communities, however. People into BDSM who are not involved in porn do fisting, which can be an incredible way to gain intimacy with another person. The amount of trust involved when it comes to fisting is essential, and while there can be internal pressure to get a fist in there as quickly as possible when someone decides to try it out, in reality, the process takes quite a bit of time to build into. Fisting requires tenderness, trust, communication, and patience.

For some, the connection can almost feel spiritual in some ways. Fisting can be enjoyable for both the person who is receiving it and for the person who is giving it. Some people are turned on by being in control, others are turned on by making their partner feel good, and being able to provide someone with a sensational fullness can also be very rewarding.

Can You Orgasm From Fisting?

Some people do orgasm quite intensely from fisting, the stimulation to the g-spot, the sense of fullness, and the tons of nerve endings that are being pleasured. That said, each person perceives pleasure differently and some will not orgasm from this type of stimulation. It can still be quite intimate and pleasurable, however. For people who orgasm from g-spot stimulation or p-spot simulation, or for people who get off on vaginal penetration, fisting can be a way to get to experience different types of orgasms.

What Does It Feel Like? 

For the Fistee, fisting feels like intense stretching. For many, it becomes a new favorite way of getting off. Others describe it as a more intense version of g-spot stimulation. Some people do not find it to be what they’re looking for; every person is different. 

The person doing the action, called the fister, also comes away with positive experiences in many cases. There is something incredible about the trust someone puts into someone to let them fist them. Safety is essential whenever there is any risk. Feeling another person’s body stretch to accommodate a hand can be a fantastic feeling. Other people find pleasure in other people’s pleasure, making fisting a top experience for both. Fisting is a process that moves forward slowly and takes time, even on the day of the fisting. The communication and intimacy involved can provide pleasure to both people.

How To Try Fisting With A Partner 

The first step is communication. If you are curious about fisting, take the time to talk to your partner about it. Be tactful about the approach, moving forward in ways that are relaxing. Be nonjudgmental whether you are the person approaching her partner or they are approaching you. Having tools and resources available for them to read on their own can be a massive help. Keep in mind that people may need a little bit of time to research and learn on their own. Talking about your feelings, fantasies, and fetishes has benefits. Doing it in a way that promotes understanding, patience and gives options for moving forward regardless of whether both people are interested in the experience or not is essential. Many people wonder if they can enjoy fisting without a partner, too.

Can You Enjoy Fisting Without A Partner? 

The answer is a resounding yes. Many people find benefits from fisting without a partner, though special tools may be needed. Not everybody can get their own fist inside of themselves; flexibility, a good arm length and fist size, and practice and patience are essential. Enjoying fisting without a partner is harder to do, and you may need to pick up fist-shaped sex toys in order to experiment and explore. For people who are beginners at fisting, the toy fingers are not as shapeable as a human hand, which can make the process take longer overall. There are many other types of sex toys that are designed for people who are looking into vaginal stretching and can bring similar sensations overall.

Is Vaginal Fisting Safe? 

As long as you use lube, go slow, and only continue as long as it feels good, vaginal fisting is safe. There are always risks involved with sexual activities; so doing your research on how to practice safer vaginal fisting is essential. While there are some misconceptions that fisting is going to stretch out a person's vagina, this is an unfounded fear. While a myth, it does make some people shy away from vaginal fisting. That said, the vagina is an elastic muscle that will return to the size it was before the fisting session began.

How To Practice Safer Vaginal Fisting 

Communication is essential when it comes to boundaries and communicating how you feel over the process. There are some tenants of successful fisting, with many general tips and safety tips to be aware of. If you are looking to fist another person, get rid of anything that causes additional risk, like chipped nails, calluses, and jagged edges that can cause little cuts, microspheres, or abrasions and the vaginal skin. These can be annoying, and for some people, they can cause pain. In addition to making sure your hands are well manicured, make sure to pick up some gloves. Some people choose to put cotton balls under their nails while they wear gloves.

There are risks, including STIs and infection. These can be reduced with good communication and wearing protective barriers like gloves. In addition, the use of lubricant helps keep things safer. Use many times more, up to three or four times or more, what you think you would normally need to use. If you are planning on using toys, thicker lubes that are water-based can be best. Otherwise, silicone lubes can be ideal. Start slow, use your knuckles in your favor, use sex toys when appropriate, and make sure to pull out slowly. In addition, a person may need some care afterward. Fisting can be a vulnerable experience, it is considered taboo, and the fisting itself can be quite intense. Knowing that the other person may need to cuddle, chat, or have words of affirmation is essential.

Final Notes

People who enjoy larger sex toys, a full pussy, wider toys, multiple fingers in their pussy, and penetrative orgasms will all like what fisting has to offer. Some people will start along the journey and do not get to a full hand inside of them; it is a process that takes is some dedication and exploration. If your partner craves that fullness, or you do, vaginal fisting is a fun sexual journey. While it can feel amazing for some, if it feels painful or too intense, you can decide to stop. Respect other people’s boundaries when it comes to fisting and if somebody wants to stop, either person, make sure to do so. Fisting can lead to intense orgasms and sensations. Take the steps in this blog to have a positive experience exploring vaginal stretching, vaginal fisting, and sexual fun.